All Feelings Are Important
Did you know that your negative feelings were as important as your positive
ones? I want you to think about this for a moment. Photography would not exist
without the negative. If you are stuck in your life, feel that you are having
the same argument with a loved one or colleague and getting nowhere, I can help
you slowly step back so that you can see the whole picture which includes your
frustrations.
Negativity is a Sign of Change
It is a paradox. As it is the negative feelings and the negative events themselves
which leads us into the change we are seeking. In fact, our negativity is telling
us about change, and it is change that most of us are reluctant to make. Because
I understand reluctance, both how it can keep us stuck and how it can help us
move, I can help you create the change you are longing for from the negativity
you are currently experiencing.
Walk Away With New Light
Everyone brings in their own set of problems and strengths, and I see each
of you as an entire unique picture. You will most likely walk away from my sessions
feeling more relaxed and inspired to receive new insights from our work together.
You may begin to see negative family patterns in new light. The process can
be challenging but then, isn’t the challenge worth it?
How I Can Help You
My work includes but is not limited to, Family Constellation Work, Integrated
Kabalistic Healings, poetry/writing therapy, storytelling therapy, play/art
therapy, meditation, and spiritual guidance.
Who I Help
I work with individuals, couples, families, adolescents, and children.
Call Now for Free Consultation
Please call me at 978.392.5998 for a confidential 20 minute free consultation or contact me to make an
appointment. Phone sessions also available.
August 18th, 2010 . by molly
Constellation Work is a systemic method developed by Bert Hellenger to help individuals go to the core of their issues whether it be work or family related.It is a powerful, intimate way of looking at what is from a completely different perspective. By acknowledging those who came before us, our grand-parents, great-grand-parents, great-great grandparents, in fact, our ancestors, we can grasp the idea that everything that has transpired in our lives is due to a set of conditions that occurred way back when. And that these conditions have continued in our lives as unwanted, patterns that no longer serve us.By delving into the “knowing field” or into our family soul we can unravel the issues keeping us from moving forward into the world, and feel more freedom and more connection in our lives as a result.
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February 12th, 2010 . by molly
Parenting is thee most humbling, challenging and rewarding job on earth. Each stage of development brings a whole new set of issues and just as you begin to think you “have it down” your child completely changes This workshop will help you find your own creative place as a parent-digging down to the bottom of your toes for solutions only you can find.
Each parent-child relationship is unique-and so each momentary solution you find works for and your child in that particular moment. Come share your frustrations, and most inspired moments, and learn how to keep the latter alive.
Parents of children of all ages are welcome.
In this workshop we will explore:
*How to take your unconscious parenting patterns and turn them into purposeful and meaningful tools toward your own self-awareness.
*How to meet all of your children’s needs while still meeting your own.
* How to say “yes” and “no” effectively.
*How to be your children’s guide instead of their friend or disciplinarian.
Come join Molly Salans, LICSW for this inspiring, down-to-earth conversation.
The Groton Wellness Medical Center 978-449-9919
Mill Run Plaza, Groton Ma.
Saturday Feb. 27, 2010 10:00-12:00pm
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February 12th, 2010 . by molly
At last! The six week and monthly support group you’ve been looking for!
Imagine:
*A pile free desk
*Finding things easily
*Having others to support you while you clear out the junk
As you clear your office and home you clear your mind
We will discuss topics such as:
*Paperwork
*Procrastination
*Time Management and more
Six Sessions Weekly
MONDAY MORNINGS 9:30-11:00
Sept. 20,,27, Oct. 1,8,15 & 23.
At Tranquility Yoga
290 Littleton Rd., Chelmsford MA.
SIX MONTHLY SESSIONS
Thursday Evenings 7:00 to 8:30
Sept. 16, Oct.14, Nov.18, Dec.16, Jan. 20 & Feb.17
at Karendyth Holisitc Center
254 Littleton RD,, Westford MA. 01886
Imagine having spaciousness and room within your home and heart!
Facilitators: Molly Salans 978-392-5998
And Judith Guertin, Professional Organizer
978-649-7733
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October 28th, 2009 . by molly
Are you stuck in the same habits and patterns that prevent you from moving forward in your life? These habits and patterns often come from unresolved issues within the family. Constellations tap into the energy fields of our families, revealing the conscious and unconscious loyalties that were created out of love.
Join Claudia Greenfield and Molly Salans, LICSW for an experiential Family Constellation Workshop.
Acknowledge your family as they are-the good and the bad.
Open to accepting what is-heal the wounds- and create space for love.
Call/email Molly to register. Preregistration is required.
Sat May 1, 2010 12-5pm
$100 per person
Tranquility Yoga Studio
290 Littleton Rd., Chelmsford MA.
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January 8th, 2009 . by molly
I am now offering the Family Ties, Constellation Approach again in April. If you are tired of the same old story-tired of the same old arguement with your spouse, child, colleague or friend, then this workshop is for you.It will get to the core of the issue in a powerful and significant way that can create changes within you for months to come. Please write or call if you have any questions. I am very excited to be presenting this workshop again.?
See Classes for a description.
I can’t wait to see you all discover your most precious dreams this year. I will look forward to working with you through 2009 and beyond.
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November 17th, 2008 . by molly
Do you want happy and successful children who will think independently and can make good choices in their lives?
Come to the Essential Parenting Seminar, held in a warm and friendly atmosphere and learn to:
*Break self-defeating behaviors and thoughts in yourself and your kids.
*Instill beliefs that will empower your children toward choice and success.
Help them to deal effectively with challenges at school and at home.
*foster interests and acdtivites that electonic, cell phones, etc. have taken away.
You are their key to the future.We can help to open the door with our innovative, life-changing techniques.
Producers: Molly Salans and Sally Sacks.
We are licensed psychotherapists and coaches with combined 44 years of experience helping others to help themselves.
Next Seminars:
Thursday Feb. 26, 2009 6;30-9:00pm
Thursday March 19, 2009: 6:30-9:oopm
Saturday March 28, 2009: 9:00-11:30am
Cost: $140
Write or call now if you are interested in signing up for the next seminar
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October 22nd, 2008 . by molly
Family Ties
An Afternoon of Family Constellations
Sat. April 25, 2009 12-5pm.
290 Littleton Rd.,Chelmsford, Ma.
Call or email Molly to register.
Cost:$100
You don’t want to miss this!
Bring your friends, and family.
You don’t have to be a parent to come to this, but you do need to be 18 years or older.
Are you stuck in the same habits and patterns,
And can’t seem to get out from under?
Constellation work is a healing approach that allows you to witness and step into an old relationship in order to see it with new eyes.
Our relationship with our family of origin impacts our relationship with family, friends, heath, work, money and more.
Constellations tap into the energy field of your family, revealing these unwanted patterns that were created out of love and loyalty.
When the pattern is revealed you have the opportunity to see it in a new way.
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April 25th, 2008 . by molly
Dreaming Yourself Into the Life You Want
Sunday March 1 2009: 1:00-5:00
Karendyth Holistic Center
254 Littleton Rd. Westford Ma.
01886
Cost: $125
Do you feel a certain kind of nagging or irritation tugging at you?
Do you feel a certain kind of annoyance with the words “finding abundance”?
Do you question why your relationships with family and colleagues go wrong even though you are trying your best?
Do you remember daydreaming as a kid?
Did you know that these irritations and daydreams come from an inner place of disappointment where your dreams used to live?
In this wonderfully, kind, informative, safe and experiential workshop we will explore these feelings and get back to those dreams, no matter how impossible it seems now to manifest them.
Within the heart of those dreams, lies your own inner peace, and through meditation, exploration, and much more we will explore both what is stopping and helping you live from your inner core, that is your true self. Your true self is the abundance you can’t find outside of yourself. And your negative feelings are the conduits that lead you there!
Sign up now for this amazing workshop! I can’t wait to see you there!
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March 17th, 2008 . by molly
The Law of Attraction states that we attract every single thing that is in our life, both the good and the bad. The ancient texts, and teachers teach that the human mind is a magnet for imprints. Read the rest of this entry »
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February 15th, 2008 . by molly
“To thine ownself be true,and it will followas the night the daythat thou canst be false to any man. Hamlet-
Meditation is for Every Parent and Non-Parent
What does it mean to be “true to yourself”? In this day and age we are all so busy, torn between helping our children, our family and our friends, that we believe it is “selfish” to pay attention to ourselves. And even when we have a minute to be “true”to ourselves, we have no idea which “truth” to follow!
Meditation is a wonderful way of quieting all of those “shoulds” and allowing space and quiet to fill our beings. This space and quiet gives us a much larger picture from which to see our struggles. It is also a creative space, so new ideas can emerge that we wouldn’t have otherwise thought about. It also helps us to sit with unclarity, until true clarity comes.
How many times have I had clients tell me, “well I’ve tried to meditate but I can’t. I can’t quiet my mind.”
Everyone who meditates has this experience over and over again. I’ve been meditating for over 20 years and I still feel, at times, that I can’t quiet my mind! The whole point of meditation is to bring awareness to ourselves and to shed light on just how distracted we are. As you begin to see the obstacles in the way of your own truth, then you can define and follow your own truth with more clarity.
I teach both guided and quiet meditations which will help you understand more clearly how to be true to yourself. Once you have this clarity, then you will most likely see, that you really can’t help others unless you are also being true to yourself. It is a paradox. The more you ignore your own calling, the more pulled you’ll be to help others find theirs. But all you will receive is more neediness from those you are trying to help and in turn you will become more exhausted, which will lead you to help even more but you will continue to feel more and more exhausted.Once you can begin to fullfill your own calling, then you will find that those you are helping will be able to follow theirs as well. You will feel more energized and less pulled upon. The more energy you have, the more inspired you are to follow your own calling, which in turn inspires those you are trying to help.
See also: Integrated Kabalistic Healings
Family Constellation Work
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